Fetish Fashion, not your fetish?


Where is there a rule that you have to wear fetish fashion to a kink event?  Don’t get me wrong.   I LOVE clothes.   I love fashion.   I really love fetish fashion.   You might even say that I have a fashion fetish.   But that’s me, it may not be you.   Your fetish may be objectification or urine.   I find it hard to ...

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199

I've
only lost a total of 8lbs since I began this journey and its been an
incredibly slow and painful one at that.  But, I have finally reached
my first goal...199lbs.  It is with some shame that I have to admit
that the key to my success is my iPhone.  I mean, come on...really? 
Yes, really.  It's with me all the time.  I can make healthy choices
before I order, no matter where I am...its always with me.  And, talk
about instant gratification.  I can enter my weight, I can track
physical activity, I can see results right away!!



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Anal 101 - a review

I’m defiantly not an expert on anal.  I’m still pretty terrified of it actually.  That’s what makes it so much fun for me I guess.  It’s still a challenge for me to get over that mental hurdle.  As a result, I am truly submitting to my Sir when we have anal sex.  It’s ALWAYS totally hot.  There are also other benefits.  There are the mind blowing orgasms and then there is what I like ...<< MORE >>

Jet Setter

It was a whirl wind of weekend.  In fact, I can’t say that I’ve had such a busy and diverse weekend in a long time, maybe never.  I may indeed now be a jet setter.  I started out at fundraiser for the NCSF, it rocked well into the morning and I found myself in bed about 3 or 4am.  By 6am I was up and getting ready to go to work.  The store was vending at a fetish event in Baltimore.  ...<< MORE >>

Sexiest fundraiser of the year

Tabu’s Annual NCSF Fundraiser


Friday, April 3rd at 8 PM


Help us raise $$$ to fight for our right to sexual freedom at


Baltimore’s sexiest fundraiser of the year!!




At Tabu
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Really? There's really a bible belt?

I had the opportunity to attend my second protest last weekend.  This time, however, I was on the receiving end.  A radical Christian group caught wind of Winter Wickedness - the kink event that we were attending near Columbus.  I really didn't know that there were really people like this out there.  Check out some of the articles that resulted on both sides of the issue....

Columbus Dispatch        Right Pundits         TV 10        American's for Truth    Better Than Faith     World Net Daily      << MORE >>

fallling off the wagon

Don't worry, I didn't fall off the wagon...but I've been thinking about how easy it is to fall back into old habits without even realizing it.  While we were on vacation I loosened the reigns on my "diet," while trying to make better choices.  6oz filet instead of the 18oz porterhouse, light beer instead of lager and so on.  I made allowances because I was on vacation, but I came home and found an immediate reason to make more excuses...we were vending so eating out was pretty much the only option.  I was tempted to make it my way out.  ...<< MORE >>

my coke addiction

I went cold turkey four days ago.  No coke at all.  None, zip, zilch, zero....even nada!!  The withdrawal has been better than I thought, but the headaches are killing me.  I wake up in the middle with terrible migraines.  Its a feeling similar to waking up after a night of binge drinking.  Every ounce of moisture sucked from your body.  Your head screaming at you for indulging in youthful tendencies. 

The headaches, along with the aches and pains, have subsided.  Now its just a matter of habit.  Every time I open the refrigerator I reach for a diet coke.  Just ...<< MORE >>

I have a broken heart

Ever wonder why the heart is the symbol of the center of our love, emotion, soul, spirituality.  There are biblical, mythological and historical references to the heart being the seat of our soul.  Indeed, many classical philosophers and scientists, including Aristotle, considered the heart the seat of thought, << MORE >>

Holiday Whirlwind

It’s 5pm and I feel like its past midnight.  I’m exhausted, physically, mentally and emotionally.  It was a whirlwind of a week.  We (Sir and I) spent four days in Manhattan with his mother. Four days.  It doesn’t seem like a long time and while it flew by, it also drug on painfully slow.  A mix of exploring New York for the first time with a native; skipping most of the tourist attractions and enjoying the kooks and crannies of the city.<< MORE >>

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    Wednesday, March 03, 2010
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  5. Sexiest fundraiser of the year
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  6. Really? There's really a bible belt?
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  8. my coke addiction
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  10. Holiday Whirlwind
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